I met Chuck at the age of nine. Falling in love with him from the first moment I layed eyes on him, I made it my mission to have him as my husband. Praying and wishing on birthday candles and watching him from a distance and eventually developing a fun friendship with him... all the while conspiring... :). Got my first kiss at fifteen. Got taken seriously at seventeen. Got married a week after my eighteenth birthday. I did not realize the depth of color and beauty and completeness he would bring to my life. As Chuck said, we have done countless things to damage our love... We have been through so much together as a young married couple that we call ourselves marriage veterins. We praise God for bringing us through tough circumstances that would tear any weak marriage completely apart, and are so greatful to have the relationship we do now.
It was the hurts and hardships that brought us to where we are today... brought us to deeper understanding, compromise, and flexability in regards to one another. I love you Chuck. You have taught me so much in this life, and so often are my voice of reason. :)
At the time of the initial decision we made about our move to Kansas City, MO... Everything seemed to be unravelling. Everywhere we turned, nothing seemed to be working out. One day, Chuck came outside to our back patio, put his hands on the back of the chair, sighed and said.. "why don't we just pack up and move to Kansas City"... and I said, "you know, I think that's just what the doctor ordered!" A new sense of hope and life filled our home from that moment foward as we began to seriously consider this big move. I think I married just the right man to satisfy my spontanious, adventurous spirit.
It has felt as though every step of this was pre-planned, the move, the renovation of our house, the selling of all our stuff.... the kids have been so joyful and wonderful throughout all of this which is a big plus. Leaving texas just felt good. Out with the old, in with the new. YA...HOO!!!!!!
OMG Julie....... I love you and your words bless me. I miss you so much.
ReplyDeleteYou are my favorite Julie in the entire world!